JOY!

God is amazing!  I cannot deny His power and timing in every situation.  As a Father of two little ones, I know that I have a huge responsibility to present Christ to the family and clearly share what it means to follow Jesus.  I also must say that Kids Kare on Tuesdays and Thursdays, Wednesday nights, and Sundays (usually all day for us Pastor types and the kids) does an amazing job clearly explaining Jesus on a child level as well.  In saying that, Laura and I have been praying for Kaitlyn, who is now five and Noah, who is now three to hear the gospel clearly and respond correctly.  My prayers for a while over the kids and our household were based out of the truth in the book of Joshua.

Joshua 24:14-15

14 “Now fear the Lord and serve him with all faithfulness. Throw away the gods your forefathers worshiped beyond the River and in Egypt, and serve the Lord.15 But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your forefathers served beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.

Our family is choosing to serve THE LORD and as for me and my house we will SERVE THE LORD!  With this in mind, we have been in discussion with Kaitlyn about what Jesus did and why He died for us.  She even had times where she brought up topics about the cross and sin to both of us separately.  The soil had been cultivated by many.  From intentionality in the family to the love at Oakwood, Kaitlyn was ready for the asking.  After many discussions, prayers, tears, and thoughts, Laura decided to tell Kaitlyn to think about asking Jesus in to her heart during the day at school.  Laura’s desire was for Kaitlyn to know and sense the still small voice of God drawing her.

Thursday, March 8, marks the evening Kaitlyn talked to both of us about wanting to ask Jesus in her heart.  We let her voice a prayer in her own words and also guided her to pray.  The night filled me with JOY!  With so much of life and the hectic movement of it, my life paused and we celebrated the JOY of little Kaitlyn giving her heart to Jesus!

 

Love At Last Sight Challenge: BE ALL THERE

The Love as Last Sight Challenge has begun at Oakwood Baptist Church.  For 30 days we are going to focus on adding value to our relationships using the practical insights Kerry and Chris Shook have given in the Love At Last Sight Book.  I like the fact that we are taking a look at this challenge as an ART and not a SCIENCE.  Relationships are messy and one relationship is not exactly like another because we are all uniquely created by God.

Check out this link for more details 

Three Stages of Love – We have discovered in the book that there are three stages of love when it comes to the deep relationships around us.

  1. First Glance or infatuation stage – The Monkees added a great musical touch to this first stage of love.  Here are the lyrics:                                                                                                                                                                               I thought love was only true in fairy tales
    Meant for someone else but not for me.
    Love was out to get me
    That’s the way it seemed.
    Disappointment haunted all my dreams.Then I saw her face, now I’m a believer
    Not a trace of doubt in my mind.
    I’m in love, I’m a believer!
    I couldn’t leave her if I tried.I thought love was more or less a given thing,
    Seems the more I gave the less I got.
    What’s the use in tryin’?
    All you get is pain.
    When I needed sunshine I got rain.

    Then I saw her face, now I’m a believer
    Not a trace of doubt in my mind.
    I’m in love, I’m a believer!
    I couldn’t leave her if I tried

  2. Second Look stage – you take a second look and usually it’s a harder second look and that’s the time where you ask, ”What did I ever see in you in the first place?”  All you can see is the glaring differences you have.  You say, they’re not like me at all.  We’re just opposites.  You see all of their annoying habits.  I think Pop Stars and the Media-type relationships make it right up to this stage and BAIL!

3. Last Sight stage –  Then there is the tried and true Love Stage.   The goal is to think this,  “The last time we see each other we will be more in love than ever before.”

I believe we are all looking for Last Sight Stage people to have in our lives.  We crave people that really “get” us and know who we are.  Someone that knows my heart won’t misunderstand me as much, right?

Think about it:   What deep relationships and friendships do you have right now?  Are you deeply hurt by someone close to you?  Has your marriage lost that loving feeling?  Maybe we all need a lesson on what it takes to reach the Last Sight Stage, where we are actually growing in our close relationships like never before.
If we are going to learn to love at last sight, a great place to focus is on Ephesians 5:1-2.

“Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are His dear children.  Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ. He loved us and offered Himself as a sacrifice for us, a pleasing aroma to God.”  Ephesians 5:1-2 (NLT)

Kerry Shook says, “The highest goal we can have this side of heaven is to love like Jesus Christ.
That’s a life-long journey of growing and developing rich, meaningful relationships.  Jesus shows us what it will take to live a life of love.  That’s why we’re told to follow the example of Christ if we are to live a life of love, a love that lasts. He paints a portrait of what God would have our relationships look like.  Relationships are an art and the master artist who offers us the clearest picture of love is Jesus Christ.  When you look at His life, His character and the relationships He shared with His Father and others, you see a perfect picture of love.”

This love at last sight thing is all about the art of relationships.  The first art is The Art of Being All There, Wherever You Are – the Bible tells us that Jesus is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.  You’ll never have to worry about Him not being all there for you when you call out to Him.  Following His death and resurrection, He gave this assurance to His disciples and to us in Matt. 28:20, “… And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”  He wanted them and us to be confident, “be sure of this” so that we would never doubt His presence.  Even though we may not be able to see Him, He wanted us to know that He was with us.  Faith simply believes that and says thanks!  You’ll never have to pray what I’ve heard prayed so often in churches growing up, “Father, be with us today…”  Why do we ask God that?  Wasn’t it God who said, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.”  Heb. 13:5 (NIV)

So the first week challenge is to  BE ALL THERE in your relationships each week of this Love At Last Sight Series.  Something that has been helpful to me is the following scripture on love.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8a
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.5 It is not rude, it is not self‑seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails.

This is ultimately Last Sight Love.  When we focus on the love of Christ, we put away our selfish pride and begin to focus on others.

How are you doing with the art of BEING ALL THERE?

The Original Sin

Based off Mike Wittmer’s Book Heaven is a Place on Earth

http://mikewittmer.wordpress.com/

Genesis 3:5-6

5 “For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”
6 When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it.

“My Bad,” …EVE.  We make fun of he Woman listening to the Serpent and realize that is where this whole Epic Fail began.  The Temptation to Sin was not due to unknown rules.  There were no warning signs that we know of that stated “Keep Away” or “Beware of Forbidden Fruit.”  That is for a society of many people and a governing authority today.  What the governing authority was came from the very WORD of GOD.  In fact, the first command heard from God was most likely this command.

Genesis 2:15-17

15 The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it.16 And the Lord God commanded the man, “You are free to eat from any tree in the garden;17 but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it you will surely die.”

Did Adam hear this and then give this word to his later created wife, Eve?  Maybe he was the warning sign and told her to not even touch it.  Whatever the case, God never stated that the fruit was not to be touched.  The result of death only comes from eating the forbidden fruit.  What happens is a breakdown in the system that God put in place.  The serpent comes to tempt Eve, not Adam. The serpent completely contradicts in a curious question the first part of God’s statement, “You are free to eat from any tree…”  The curious questions of freedom within the confines of God’s command is corrected with a statement mainly of out Eve’s knowledge of what was commanded.

Genesis 3:2-3

2 The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden,3 but God did say, ‘You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die.’ ”

Here she adds the “not touch it’ phrase.  Maybe this is the warning sign from Adam.  God’s Word is “Don’t EAT” and Adam’s response is to warn Eve to not even touch the fruit.  The serpent questions the authority of Adam, who most likely gives the command to Eve, and then makes Eve think about why it is forbidden.  Wisdom to be “like God.”  Oh, and by the way, Adam was with her.  Maybe he is trying to remember what he named the animal that is questioning God.  Maybe he is shocked that a serpent is talking to his wife.  Whatever the case, he is silent in the discussion, but not in the action.

Somewhere Eve and Adam were both persuaded to “think for themselves.”  They were taken off line from trusting the governing authority of God’s Word.  This was embedded with the opportunity to “be like God” in understanding Good and Evil.  They became the judge and the jury regarding the tree command.  They took the law into their own hands, and that resulted in going all the way.  Not just touching and delighting in the fruit, but eating.  This decision is the first decision made independent from God.

Sin = Godlessness.  Sin cannot coincide with God.  When Adam & Eve Sin, they gain knowledge of Good and Evil, but they do not have the same ability to discern and define Good and Evil.  This sends them into a place where they can have a sense of morality, but they are a little off.  This is the effect of Sin.  Man searching to judge like God and rule like God when it comes to Good and Evil.  This makes sense in our world today.  We see many people running after fame, money, power, and good things like saving the planet, but there is something missing.  The definition.  The parameters.  The boundaries.  The GOD that CREATED!

What is the REMEDY?

Jesus Came to Earth to establish the Kingdom of God once again.  He fulfilled the law in order make known once again the clear definition, parameters, & boundaries that might set us free from the consequence losing sight of the ultimate morality.  As John the Baptist pronounces, He comes to take away the sin of the World!

John 1:29

29 The next day John saw Jesus coming toward him and said, “Look, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!

The ripple effect of Jesus stepping on the Earth is the Counseling Spirit He left behind after His ascension.  The Holy Spirit now gives us the ability to step back into the Freedom of the Garden.  We are able to commune with God by His Spirit, and the Spirit convicts, judges, and reveals sin & righteousness.  As Jesus speaks, himself in John 16:

John 16:7-10

7 But I tell you the truth: It is for your good that I am going away. Unless I go away, the Counselor will not come to you; but if I go, I will send him to you.8 When he comes, he will convict the world of guilt in regard to sin and righteousness and judgment:9 in regard to sin, because men do not believe in me;10 in regard to righteousness, because I am going to the Father, where you can see me no longer;

Following Jesus resets our parameters.  We once again align in the way that we were created to be.  We are new creation in the sense of now being able to recognize Good & Evil by The Spirit and now have the Freedom to walk in the Spirit under God’s Rule and Authority, rather than the flesh, under our own Rule and Authority.

God’s relation to sin « Don’t Stop Believing

God’s relation to sin « Don’t Stop Believing.

 

 

God’s relation to sin

Conceptualizing God’s relation to sin is one of the deep mysteries of theology. Why would a good and sovereign God will to allow sin? How does sin even exist in his world? Karl Barth powerfully attempts to explain in his Church Dogmatics IV/1:

“Sin has no positive basis in God, no place in His being, no positive part in His life, and therefore no positive part in His will and work. It is not a creature of God. It arises only as…what God has not willed and does not will and will not will, of that which absolutely is not, or is only as God does not will it, of that which lives only as that which God has rejected and condemned and excluded. When man sins, he does that which God has forbidden and does not will” (p. 409).

“Sin is that which is absurd, man’s absurd choice and decision for that which is not, described in the Genesis story as his hearkening to the voice of the serpent, the beast of chaos. Sin exists only in this absurd event….[Sin] exists only on the left hand of God” (p. 410).