On The Journey – Obstacles

Our Fusion Wednesdays are beginning the year with a look at the Journey ahead.  As 2017 has now ended and 2018 is at the beginning , we find a place in time that we have memories, good or bad, in the rear view mirror and a new horizon ahead.  At this place, we carry hopes and dreams of making things better and growing along the way.   However, what we don’t commonly encounter in our hopes and dreams of new resolutions and new beginnings is the truth of life.  No matter what we wish to become, there will be OBSTACLES ahead.

No one likes to think about OBSTACLES on the journey of life.  In fact, how we react to them may indicate what type of person we are.

That might be why this video seems to be very engaging .

Watch this “Digital Exclusive” as an unexpected man tackles great obstacles on the American Ninja Warrior Show.

Why does this video seem to be so engaging?  What are we hoping as a six minute and thirty second video captures us?

I was first amazed, then I wanted to see the 81 year old character WIN!  Yet, my thoughts about the man brought disbelief as well.  The truth is, it was all a show, and there is another reveal clip on YouTube.

What about you?  How do you react to OBSTACLES that come your way in life?

A man that had many OBSTACLES brought upon him, as he boldly preached the Gospel and fervently served the Lord, brings it into perspective for our daily lives in Christ.

Read Philippians 3:12-14

12 Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own. 13 Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. 

Paul looks at his life, OBSTACLES and all, and lays the past aside, with a diligence to PRESS ON and STRAIN FORWARD.

Much like at true old man might have taken the Ninja Warrior course, Paul strains with all he has, and in the OBSTACLE, he keeps his focus on true hope, true resolution, and ultimate RESURRECTION!

When we look at the horizon, and press on toward the goal of the upward call of Christ Jesus, we find that in the face of OBSTACLES we have a power to move forward on the journey of our faith.  The hidden secret is that it is usually the OBSTACLES we face, head on, that move us to growth.  It is also in the time we tackle the OBSTACLES that we see the death of ourselves and the RESURRECTION POWER of JESUS CHRIST.

What are your hopes and dreams for the NEW YEAR?  What OBSTACLES do you need RESURRECTION POWER to overcome?

3 Simple Parenting Tips You Don’t Normally Hear

Parent Newsletter

by Jonathan McKee – at TheSource4Parents.com

On Monday nights when our girls were growing up, Cathy and I would take them to the Golden Spoon for frozen yogurt after dinner. The weekly yogurt run was part of our family identity — part of what made us who we were. Even the neighbors knew our routine and sometimes shouted to-go orders as we pulled out of our driveway. Our three daughters are now grown, but when our family gets together, we still make trips to the Golden Spoon. It’s one of those simple traditions that have kept our family bonds strong.

Not surprisingly, a strong family identity also helps children develop a strong and healthy self-identity. Knowing what makes their family unique — traditions, values, and ways of relating to one another — gives children a clear starting point for discovering their own place in the world. Studies have shown that kids who identify with their family’s values tend to be less promiscuous and face less risk of drug and alcohol abuse.

I’m a big fan of parents who make the effort to build a strong family identity. But how is it done? Here are three principles that I believe are critical to the process.

1. Be present. Children regard your presence in their lives as a sign of care and connectedness. Families who eat meals together, play together, and build traditions together thrive. Your presence matters! Does your family eat together at least four times a week? If so, there is a greater chance your kids will perform better in school and be less likely to exhibit negative behavior.

2. Celebrate everything! Don’t miss a single chance to celebrate your family. You can celebrate birthdays, graduations, and other rites of passage, but don’t miss out on celebrating life’s smaller occasions such as Little League victories, learned skills, and school achievements.

3. Talk about faith. For some families, spiritual discussions are easier said than done. But having faith conversations with your kids helps to build your family identity. They also help your kids build strong convictions, as they get older. When you regularly expose your kids to God’s truth, it can, as a friend of mine says, “help them develop a sweet tooth for Jesus.” And that’s something far better than buying your kids frozen yogurt at the Golden Spoon.

Love – 1 Peter 4:8

The weeks leading up to Christmas can be filled with joy, anticipation, and excitement. But they also can be filled with exams, homework projects, and family stress. Those things certainly don’t bring out the best in us. No matter what conflicts or hurts come your way this season, Peter reminds us that we have what we need to overcome it: love. Jesus’ deep love for us covered all of our sins, and it’s now up to us to choose to love others in a way that displays this incredible truth. When you feel stressed out or overwhelmed, pray that God would remind you of His love this season.

Love – John 15:13

Of all the ways we can choose to show someone love, laying down your life for them is by far the greatest. But what does this look like on a regular basis? Well, have you ever stuck up for someone who was being bullied? Have you ever shared something with a friend that you could’ve enjoyed for yourself? While this isn’t exactly giving up your life for a friend, it is following Jesus’ example of showing love through laying down your comfort and rights. What are some ways you can lay down your life for someone else this week? Ask God to help you take your eyes off of your own comforts and rights and instead place them on those of others.

Love – Romans 12:9

The Christmas season is all about celebrating what is good. God sent His good and perfect son in the ultimate display of love for us. And in doing so, He showed us that while love can be a feeling, it’s also an action. Instead of just telling us He hates evil, God sent His son to defeat it. Instead of just saying we are to cling to good, God sent His son for us to cling to. God shows us the very idea of love is a call to action: to love others out of the love He has shown us. Take some time to thank God for loving us both in words and in action.

Peace – Philippians 4:7

Have you ever had to stand guard? It may have been when you babysat a neighbor or even when someone asked you to hold their phone. Standing guard is serious business. It means you promise to protect that treasured person or possession. Paul writes that in the same way, God promises to guard our hearts and minds in Jesus. We are His treasured possessions, and He wants to protect us with all He has. This week, try to memorize this verse so that you can remember God’s promises of protection and peace.

Peace – 1 Peter 3:11

God could’ve done all kinds of things to help turn our hearts from evil and back towards good. He could’ve taken any path to seek peace and pursue a relationship with us. But God chose to turn our hearts to good and bring us peace by entering in to a relationship with us. Through Jesus, God made a way for us to be as close to Him as possible. When you think about seeking peace with others this Christmas season, do any relationships come to mind? This week, choose peace and reach out to anyone who comes to mind. Remind them that you care for them and are praying for peace in your relationship.

Peace – Colossians 3:15

As we move further away from Thanksgiving and inch closer to Christmas, thoughts of thankfulness and peace can sometimes be replaced with lists of wants and needs. Instead of being grateful for what we have, we can fall into the trap of comparing and focusing on what we don’t have. When thanksgiving is replaced with thoughts of what we are getting, it can build walls in our hearts in our relationships with God and others. This week, brainstorm with your small group some ways you can come togethe